A friend of mine once said "Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it."
Ok, that was Ferris Bueller. Nonetheless, it's a pretty accurate observation.
For those of you who know the BIG story, but not the details, suffice it to say that I am probably better off not being married. I don't mean married to the man I was married to. I know I'm better off not being married to HIM. I mean, in general, I am probably better left to myself. I am too trusting, too naive, too quick to see the good in people, too quick to forgive, too slow in seeing red flags.
Good thing I don't mind being single.
Believe it or not, even after having only been married about 5.5 months before splitting up, I do value marriage. If only I had married someone who also valued marriage, I'd be all set.
So, I have my easy chair, I have a cat, I have all kinds of books to read. Spinsterhood, here I come.
Tuesday, February 3, 2009
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3 comments:
Hun I didnt know, Im sorry :(
Ugh. I'm really sorry to hear that.
I had no idea there was a story here. Last I knew you were debating about an 'ours'... I'm very sorry about this. I'll get details when you're ready. But I'm bummed for you.
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